A few years ago, I got a new longboard for Christmas. The kids and I went out in the neighborhood and I decided I was going to be cool and ride my board as we walked around.

I immediately fall off and nearly sprain my wrist. To this day, our oldest still brings it up.

This past Christmas, we got some rad new scooters for the little ones and decided to take them around the block for a spin. It’s been awhile since I’ve ridden my board so I grab it and walk out the door.

“Be careful and don’t fall, Dad!” she says.

Listen here, kiddo. I may have a few more grey hairs than I did in the past, but I can still do this. Don’t worry!

Not even 2 doors down the street, I eat it and sprain my wrist.

I guess it’s going to be awhile yet before I can do this…

I didn’t do a great job of reviewing every book I read this year, but still read a good number of books this year. My Goodreads goal was 24 books and I hit 30.

This is down from 40 in 2022, 56 in 2021, and 60(!) in 2020. Kind of an interesting correlation between the pandemic years and what has happened as we’ve come out of various lockdowns (e.g., more activity outside is less time reading inside).

Anyway, this year’s list of books is below. My favorites were The Making of the Atomic Bomb and Tracers in the Dark. My least favorite was easily Blindsight.

• Apollo 8 by Jeffrey Kluger
• They Both Die at the End by Adam Silvera
• Tracers in the Dark by Andy Greenberg
• Prequel by Rachel Maddow
• Imperial Deserter by Andrew Moriarty
• The Explosive Child [Sixth Edition]  by Ross W.Greene
• Blindsight by Peter Watts
• Dracula by Bram Stoker
• The Last Island by Adam Goodheart
• Leonardo da Vinci by Walter Isaacson
• Blasphemy by Douglas Preston
• The Making of the Atomic Bomb by Richard Rhodes
• The Ferryman by Justin Cronin
• Children of Ruin by Adrian Tchaikovsky
• Children of Time by Adrian Tchaikovsky
• Spy by David Wise
• Tyrannosaur Canyon by Douglas Preston
• Slow Horses by Mick Herron
• The End of the World Is Just the Beginning by Peter Zeihan
• Pachinko by Min Jin Lee
• How Not to Kill Yourself by Clancy Martin
• All Quiet on the Western Front by Erich Maria Remarque
• From Cold War to Hot Peace by Michael McFaul
• All the Beauty in the World by Patrick Bringley
• Red Rising by Pierce Brown
• Heroes by Stephen Fry
• Trinity by Conn Iggulden
• The Monster’s Bones by David K. Randall
• Billion Dollar Whale by Tom Wright
• Four Thousand Weeks by Oliver Burkeman

Chuck Ragan of Hot Water Music (taken by me)

It’s time for the yearly (semi-yearly?) update of my favorite bands according to Last.FM. It is kind of all over the place this year!

1. Chuck Ragan
2. The Glitch Mob
3. Creedence Clearwater Revival
4. Vansire
5. The Lawrence Arms
6. AFI
7. The Interrupters
8. Deer Tick
9. Two Gallants
10. The Rolling Stones

Took the little ones over to Tunnel Tops Park for the first time. That was just a fantastic public space.

Our neighbor’s fence post looks rather suspicious…

Having a project hit the front page of Hacker News is a noble goal of any software engineer. Someone posted about ArtBot and it got up to position #5!

This was one of the first books I’ve read that so specifically addressed the unique difficulties we’ve been encountering with one of our kids, and the insight it provided was eye-opening and validating.

Dr. Greene’s descriptions of some scenarios people encounter at home were strikingly accurate. It kind of shook me up with how absolutely on the mark some of these descriptions and scenarios were. For me, the scenarios depicted weren’t just abstract concepts but felt like real-life situations that played out in our home.

It had some interesting ideas and strategies for navigating situations that might cause these explosions that I can’t wait to try. Namely, a concept called “collaborative problem solving”, which involves validating your child’s feelings and concerns and then working with them to come up with a solution.

The book is refreshingly honest about the complexity of these challenges, acknowledging that there’s no magic solution or quick fix. Even though there is no silver bullet, it definitely gives me hope that the light at the end of the tunnel isn’t an oncoming train.

I found “The Explosive Child” to be an insightful and valuable resource.

Buy. Buy. Buy. Buy. Buy. Buy.

It is your duty to consume. Buy stuff. More stuff. Please.

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I believe Reddit pioneered the “TIL” meme (TIL, short for “Today I Learned…”).

Over on HackerNews, someone posted an interesting discussion related to a collection of “Today I Learned” notes on GitHub, featuring all sorts of interesting coding tidbits. It goes back over 8 years!

It’s such a brilliant idea and I think I’d like to adopt something similar myself: if I learned something new and interesting, I should post about it.